It was just about two years ago, in November of 2017, that a huge change happened in our lives. It was on November 9th of that year, that we sold our Mineola house, a place that had been home to the D’Elia Family for 31 years, and we officially became full time residents of Ocean City, NJ. It was a major change in the life of two people who had never known anyplace else but Long Island as home (Susie and I), and an emotional issue with leaving a home that our 3 children had grown up in….including for our 3 children! I don’t think I’ve written about this before, so here’s brief recap to set up today’s story.
As often times happens, the anticipation of doing something causes you to put it off, and then once you’ve done it, you realize how stupid you were for dragging your feet. That was our case when we faced the prospect of selling our house! Our anticipation was that it would take months, and that it would be a painful process involving realtors, and all kinds of folks traipsing through our house. Our reality was that one of the people that had told us they were interested in the house, came by with their family one afternoon and before we went to bed that night, they made an offer, and we accepted! Never put the house on the market, never dealt with one realtor, never experienced one bit of pain, but afterwards wondered why we’d waited so long to do it!
The night they made their offer was a little less than 3 months before we went to closing, and our main job during those 3 months (besides a two week trip out to the West Coast to meet our prospective Son-in-Law Chris’ family), was figuring out how to empty the Mineola house. We’d already taken the things we wanted to Ocean City, and all three of our kids had staked their claims on other items, and even some friends had taken a few items, but the sad Baby Boomer truth is, that we’re all looking to get rid of things, and NOBODY wants them! Not our kids, not folks running tag sales, not even neighbors! So, in the end, as the closing date got closer and closer, we had to pay somebody to empty out our house!
Now the clock wasn’t our friend, and as the closing date got closer, we got more and more desperate to just move on, and walk away from the Mineola House. In the past two years, since Ocean City became our one and only home, I can’t tell you how many times we have gone looking for something, only to realize that it was obviously one of those things we just left in the house, in haste, to be dealt with by the folks cleaning it out! The list runs from things in the garage like snow brushes and shovels for the car, to snack tables, that we’d used for years, and that we have regretted leaving so many times since! This, then, is the tale of those two tables!
These were well made, heavy oak snack tables, that we’d originally bought on one of our yearly trips to the Amish Country in and around Lancaster Pennsylvania. We’d first bought one for my Mom as a Christmas present, and then added two more for our use on a subsequent trip. We probably used them in the living room a couple of nights a week. Sometimes they were the base for take-out food, or other times we used them when we had a meal we needed to use a knife and fork with (which necessitated sitting at a table, because you couldn’t do that with a plate on your lap!), and sometimes, just a base for Susie to write Christmas cards or such.
We really don’t remember if we made a conscious decision to leave the snack tables, or it was just an oversight on our part, but we’ve missed them so many times over the past 2 years. Wednesday, we spent the day righting that mistake, and along the way, we also took care of several other missions!
On our yearly trips to Amish Country, we always stopped at King’s Furniture. It was place the kids loved to explore, and the place that Susie pined over a beautiful dining room set that ultimately came to live in our Mineola House (and one piece of which now lives in the den of our Ocean City House), so we knew exactly where we’d bought them! Recently, I proposed to Susie that we spend a day, and make a great loop route through Pennsylvania, Delaware, and back to New Jersey, and in the process we hit King’s Furniture, then Total Wines in Delaware, and then Bagliani’s Italian Market in Hammonton, NJ before returning home. And that’s exactly what we did on Wednesday!!
We left the house a little after 7:15 in the morning, and arrived at King’s Acres a little after 10. The day was cold and clear, and the Amish countryside was as beautiful as always, and a little after 10:30 AM, we were back at the car, putting two lovely snack tables into the back seat! Mission 1 accomplished and a wrong corrected that had been waiting 2 years to be made right!
Then we were off on the return part of our loop drive to Claymont, Delaware, and one of our multi-time a year visits to Total Wine & More! It being mid-November, this trip would go down as our 2019 Holiday visit, and provide us with wine and spirits for Thanksgiving, Christmas and through to New Year, plus holiday gift items! The prices are excellent, and there is no tax on liquor or wine in Delaware, so it’s a win/win!
On the way home, we made a stop in Hammonton, NJ so that we could buy some of the great cheeses and sausages they have at Bagliani’s Italian Market! A great end to a great day!
We left Ocean City about 7:20 in the morning and arrived back around 3:30. In between, we traveled 257 miles, went through New Jersey to Pennsylvania to Delaware, drove briefly through Pennsylvania again, and back to New Jersey. We replaced two tables that had slipped away from us two years ago, we stocked up on wine and liquor for the holidays, and stopped off at our favorite NJ Italian Market for some goodies! All in all, a good day In Our Humble Opinion!
2 thoughts on “A Tale of Two Tables”
Unlike in movie making, where you need to shoot all the footage you need, because you can’t go back — it’s nice to know that as one downsizes, if you make a mistake — like tray tables — you CAN go back.
What a great story and some good tips for those in your area to take advantage of for holiday shopping.
Happy Thanksgiving Frank & Sue!
I told you to take them!