So, 10 years ago yesterday was the last day I was last gainfully employed! 10 years ago today, I officially started retired life. What exactly have I been doing during these 10 years of retired life you may ask. Well, whenever somebody asked me what I was going to do when I retired, my answer was “whatever I want,” and honestly, that’s pretty much been the case!
First of all, your time is your own. Back before I was last employed 10 years ago today, every work day, I’d set the alarm for 5:45 AM, get up, shower, shave, get dressed, have something to eat, and be out of the house in time to make the 7:24 Long Island Rail Road train from Mineola to Penn Station! One of my greatest retired pleasures is waking up most days without the benefit of an alarm! I say most days, because some times there are just reasons you have to be up, and I need to set an alarm, but as Susie can tell you, I complain about it every time it happens! I also try my best to not get out of bed until the 7:24 train has left the station, and my success rate has been damn good, if I do say so myself! Goals are important, even when you’re retired! I’m also happy to report that since my trip home to Mineola on January 29th, 2016, I have been on the Long Island Rail Road only once, and that was to go back to the city for a good friend’s retirement party! PS…the train was late!
Of course, the absolute best part of joining Susie in retirement on January 29th, 2016 is that my wonderful wife and I have gotten to spend every day of the last 10 years together! I know that may sound kind of strange, but Susie and I are not only husband and wife, but best friends and the single person the other one would rather be with! I guess that’s why we’ve been married for 46 years and I truly Love her Just the Way She is!!!
Without a work schedule, you also have the ability to travel whenever you want, and in early March of 2016 we took our first of almost yearly winter trips to Florida, and I combined the lack of a schedule with my Disney Retiree Benefit and went to Walt Disney World and I wrote a blog about it!
https://rnewadventures.com/2016/03/10/5-days-in-walt-disney-world/
Extended travel was always something on our radar. For a number of years, we’ve been putting ideas together for a “Bucket List” trip, and after I retired, all those ideas merged into what became known as Our Big Adventure! On the morning of August 22nd, Susie and I packed up our 2013 Hyundai Sonata, and headed west. For the next 63 days, and 9,773. miles, we visited attractions like Yellowstone, saw “the guys” at Mount Rushmore, drove on Route 66 (and got our kicks), experienced the incredible sights of the Monument Valley, and towards the end of the 9 weeks, went on a 2 week cruise out of Galveston on Royal Caribbean’s Liberty of the Seas and got to watch youngest son Kenny perform! Every day of the trip, I wrote a blog post and was happy to have our readers along in the back seat!
https://rnewadventures.com/2016/08/22/our-big-adventure-day-one/
Without having to worry about work, we were also free to spend as much time at the Ocean City house, and we did spend all but the month of August in the Summer of 2016 there! Once we returned from Our Big Adventure, we spent more time in Ocean City than we did in Mineola, and never traveled back and forth on the weekend! The one time we had to head back to Long Island for a retirement party on a weekend, we couldn’t believe the traffic and vowed to NEVER do it again!
Saying Goodbye to New York! After working on emptying it for several years, in November of 2017 we sold our house of 31 years on Fairfield Avenue in Mineola, NY, and officially moved to our house in Ocean City, NJ. It was not easy to leave a place that our 3 kids had grown up in. A house that was filled with memories of our parents, and great friends, holidays, and just daily life. It was also not easy to clean out 31 years worth of stuff, but we did! Before long our cars had NJ License Plates, Susie and I had NJ Driver’s Licenses, and. we were registered to vote in Ocean City! We were officially residents of the Garden State.
Moving to New Jersey in November of 2017 also entailed getting new Doctors, which is kind of a daunting task. There was some urgency to this as I was soon going to have a knee replacement. Our Doctor on Long Island was a wonderful lady who had taken care of our whole family, and someone Susie had known since Barbara was a resident. Not easy to say goodbye to a Doctor you’ve been going to for close to 30 years, and who was more like a friend than a Doctor, but she agreed that we needed a local Doctor and not one 150 miles away. Happy to report that we’ve got a full complement of Doctors down at the shore and are prepared for almost anything. Speaking of our medical preparedness, I can also report that during these past 10 years I’ve gotten both knees replaced, and Susie has a new hip.



In 2018, we decided it was time to replace our 2013 Hyundai Sonata Limited, that had faithfully served us for almost 6 years, and 80,000+ miles, including traveling across America on Our Big Adventure. Late that summer, we traded it in, and leased a 2018 Honda CRV. We liked the CRV so much that when the lease was over 3 years later, we replaced it with a 2021 CRV, and last year, we replaced that CRV with a leased 2025 CRV. Of course, the 2000 red Mustang Convertible that we picked up from the Ford dealer on March 31, 2000 and I used to call my “Mid Life Crisis” car is still with us, but now it’s called my “Retirement” car!
One of the very nice aspects of both of us being retired for the past 10 years, is the freedom it gives you to come and go as you please. During these past 10 years, Kenny has worked several contracts with Royal Caribbean as a lead entertainer on their ships, and we have been able to enjoy cruises and seeing our youngest perform! We’ve enjoyed various ports, and meeting many of Kenny’s work families along the way. Here’s a blog I wrote about a trip we took on Royal’s Liberty of the Seas where we were joined by my cousin’s Jeanne and Walt! https://rnewadventures.com/2019/09/29/week-1/
One thing we’ve all endured during the past 10 years was Covid 19! To say it cramped our style would be putting it mildly! When it really hit, we were in the middle of an extended stay down in Florida. One day we were in the middle of a 3 week stay at my cousin Jeanne and Walt’s place in Barefoot Bay (they were off for an extended visit to Hawaii and we were “house sitting” at their winter home), and the next day things were closing right and left (like Disney World, MLB, Cape Canaveral). One day after Jeanne and Walt headed to Hawaii, Susie and I were watching the news of what was happening in our country and we started wondering if we wanted to be in a place where we knew virtually nobody, or did we want to be back in our little South Jersey Beach Town. The Beach Town won out, and the next morning we aimed the car north on I-95 and made it back to Ocean City in record time!
But life in Ocean City and Somers Point was getting very strange too! Favorite restaurants closed, activities were curtailed, shopping was scary, and even going to the beach was banned! It was a scary time, with conflicting stories and suggestions, but we were happy we lived in a small beach town and not a big city! But eventually a vaccine was developed, and as kids of the Polio Era, we had zero fear of getting vaccinated and starting to live again! Finding a place to get the shots (2 at first) was not easy either, but eventually I got an appointment in southern Cape May County and Susie got an appointment about 20 miles away, down the Atlantic City Expressway! After our two shots, we breathed a little easier and started to live life again!
Here’s a blog I wrote in March of 2020, shortly after we got home!
https://rnewadventures.com/2020/03/21/a-strange-time/
OUR KIDS – Lots of changes in the lives of our 3 kids too over the past 10 years! First, our oldest son Billy quit his job at Fox News, and along with his wife and our two Grandkids moved to North Carolina.
In October of 2018, youngest kid Kenny got married in a wonderful wedding in Lake Tahoe, California! After traveling across the country via train (something Susie always wanted to do) we were joined by all our kids, and some of our Ocean City Family for a fabulous wedding! https://rnewadventures.com/2018/10/17/the-wedding-weekend/
Kenny’s twin sister Krissi, was always very secretive of her dating life, never really sharing information with us, so on one of our Wednesday Nail Nights, Susie and I were very surprised when Krissi told us she was bringing somebody with her for us to meet! Even worse, she was dumping him with me at the bar of the St. James Restaurant, while she and her Mom got their nails done next door! Well, we were thrilled to meet Mike that night, and at one point when he went to the Men’s Room, I told Krissi we loved him and that if they broke up, we might keep him! They met on June 15th, he asked her to marry him on June 15th, and on June 15th, 2019 they tied the knot! It was a lovely ceremony on the roof of their Astoria, NY apartment building with the NYC skyline in the background. We were surrounded by all our kids, and Dad got to walk his little girl “down the aisle!” It was a great family weekend! https://rnewadventures.com/2019/06/17/there-goes-the-bride/
BTW, between Kenny and Krissi’s wedding, on April 17th, 2019 our incredible youngest Grandkid Anna was born, completing Billy’s Family! https://rnewadventures.com/2019/04/26/meeting-our-new-granddaughter/
I’d love to be able to tell you that like in the fairy tale world, they all lived happily ever after, but sadly our two sons’ marriages ended, but they are both getting on with their lives, and ready for new adventures! Meanwhile, their sister and Mike moved out of their rented apartment in Queens, and bought a condo in New Rochelle.
Anyone who knows us, knows that we are not folks to try every new restaurant that opens, but are loyal to our favorites, and our visits happen like clockwork! Just like on Long Island when Wednesday Nail Nights we were at the St. James, and many of the Fridays we were at home, TR’s was the place you could find us for dinners and drinks, we have our favorites down the shore too!
Charlie’s Bar and Restaurant in Somers Point was one of the first places we went shortly after we bought the OC House in 2005. Most Friday nights when we got here from NY, you could find us at our favorite table in the bar area with our favorite waitress Sue. Sue also bartended at Charlie’s back bar on Tuesday night, and we always visited when we were in town on a Tuesday. Once we retired we were regular members of the second shift at Sue’s Tuesday Back Bar. Over the years, Sue became more than a server, turning into a great friend! When Covid closed Charlie’s, we all missed the gathering and for many months, Sue came to our house to recreate our Back Bar gatherings. First Charlie’s opened for take out, then a parking lot version and we were there, and eventually the restaurant opened and life got back to normal, especially at the back bar! Then Sue decided to retire after 30+ years at Charlie’s. That was a great but sad night for all of us who were members of her Tuesday Night Back Bar crew! Now our night for Charlie’s is Wednesday where we sit at the front bar where Sue’s son Chris is the bartender, so we’re keeping it in the family. BTW…most Friday nights, Sue, who is more like family than a friend, is at our house and Susie makes dinner and I make HER drinks. Here’s a blog I wrote about Charlie’s a couple of years ago. Charlie’s – https://rnewadventures.com/2019/07/10/at-the-shore-since-44/
Another place Susie and I started to go was Angelo’s Fairmount Tavern in Atlantic City. We went occasionally while we were still working, but it was after I retired and Ocean City became a more regular part of our life that we became Thursday Night regulars at Angelo’s! https://rnewadventures.com/2019/06/10/angelos/
Another consistent in our life the past 10 years is that if we’re in Ocean City on a Saturday night, we are out to dinner with friends. Unfortunately, over the past 10 years, our friend group in OC has changed. Sadly, some forks have died, and several others have moved away. However, our Saturdays with our Ocean City friends continue, even if the group is smaller and has some new members, but the one thing consistent in life is change, and Saturdays in Ocean City are no different!
https://rnewadventures.com/2018/12/01/another-saturday-night-in-oc/
Of course, when you live at the beach full time, you experience all that the beach has to offer. Ocean City is really two different places. All winter, it’s a small coastal town, with quiet streets and friendly neighbors. Then, for the couple of months of the summer, the population of Ocean City swells as thousands of summer visitors join the population. It’s busy, but it also makes for a vibrant town, with lots of stuff happening! Also, when you own a house 500 feet down the street from the Atlantic Ocean, you never have a shortage of visitors! Here’s what the summer of 2025 looked like to us!
https://rnewadventures.com/2025/09/17/the-summer-of-2025/
So there you have it, a brief look back at the 10 years of my retirement. Of course 10 years is a long time, and there is no way that we could capture all that has happened to us and our family in just a few pages, but I hope you get a sense of the kind of life we’ve lived since the day I last worked for a living. I guess you could answer the question, what exactly have you done the past 10 years of retirement by saying exactly what I said when I started this blog…whatever we wanted! As Susie and I enter the second decade of both of us being retired, all I can say is, as it has since the afternoon on Saturday, September 29, 1979 when we became husband and wife, Our Adventure Continues!! Thanks for coming along for the ride….




















































































































